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Dean Modah

Queer Linguistics Educator and Cultural Commentator

Dean Modah is a content creator, educator, and cultural commentator specializing in Queer Linguistics and LGBTQ+ Vernacular English based in New York City. He is the creator of the popular “Basic Gay Vocabulary” series, where he breaks down queer slang, ballroom-influenced language, and cultural communication for a global audience of over 310,000 followers across social platforms. His work centers on the evolution of queer language, honoring its Black and Latin ballroom roots, identity expression, and the ways LGBTQ+ communities create meaning through vocabulary, performance, and shared cultural references. He is the creator of “Modahvation: 90 Day Guided Journal for Recovery, Healing, and Transformation”. In addition to his content creation work, Dean is a trained professional makeup artist with experience at companies like Tarte Cosmetics.

Education

  • Associate’s Degree in Fine/Studio Arts, Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT)

Favorite Piece of Advice

Language carries history, identity, and power, so it’s important to understand where words come from before using them. Learning the cultural and historical context behind queer and LGBTQ+ vernacular helps foster respect, clarity, and more intentional communication. Listening to the communities that create and shape language is just as important as learning the vocabulary itself.

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Co-authored Articles (12)

What Is the Lesbian Carabiner Code? Meaning & History

Can carabiners really indicate whether you’re a top or bottom?Carabiners are used by rock climbers to connect climbing gear, but they actually have another use: to indicate that someone is a lesbian. In the LGBTQ+ comm...

140 Cute, Soft, & Cool Names for Femboys

Find the perfect femboy name for you or your partner If you’re a femboy or you’re in a relationship with a femboy, you might be looking for some cute nicknames to call each other. We’ve got you covered! In this art...

What Is a Twink? And Is It a Slur? Understanding the LGBTQ+ Term

Queer linguistics educator Dean Modah explains the slang term “twink”You’ve probably heard the term “twink” before, whether in a movie, conversation, or on social media. Maybe you’re friends with a twink or t...

What Are Otters in the Gay Community? Exploring This Gay Subtype

Learn about all the different gay subtypesThere are plenty of gay subtypes you may have heard of, from twinks to bears to foxes. An otter is one particular subtype that is sort of the in-between of a twink and a bear. Th...

18 Popular Lesbian Symbols & What They Represent

Lesbian symbols you can wear—from subtle to loud and proudYou might be surprised by just how many lesbian symbols there really are! Many of the most notable lesbian symbols are deeply rooted in history, from the writin...

Am I Comphet Quiz

“Comphet” is short for compulsory heterosexuality, and is when someone feels pressured to be or act straight by society, even when that’s not who they are. Sometimes, people experiencing comphet are aware that they...

What Does DL Mean?

Decoding and demystifying the social media slang term You’ve seen those 2 letters used everywhere on TikTok. Usually it’s in videos that say something like, “How to know if someone is DL.” But what does “DL” ...

What Does “NPNC” Mean On Grindr?

Discover the meaning of this popular LGBTQ+ dating termEver wondered what “NPNC” means on Grindr and other social media sites? This acronym stands for “no pic, no chat.” Someone might put this acronym in their pr...

What Is Twink Death? Aging & Humor in the Gay Community

Plus, tips for gay men on how to cope with getting olderNo, don’t worry—no one’s dying. “Twink death” is a humorous LGBTQ+ slang phrase for when a twink (a young, skinny gay man) matures into a larger, mature-l...

What Is a Soft Butch? A Guide to This Unique Queer Identity

Queer culture educator Dean Modah defines the term "soft butch"Whether you’re a member of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally, you’ve probably heard the term “butch” used before—but what does “soft butch” mean?...

What Is ‘Transmasc?’ Diversity Experts Explain This Gender Identity Term

Queer culture educator Dean Modah explains what it means to be transmasculineWhat does the term “transmasc” mean? And is it different from being “nonbinary” or a “trans man”? In this article, we’ll answer t...

Chapstick Lesbian: Understanding the Queer Identity & Style

Learn all about this popular queer term & what it meansHave you heard the term “chapstick lesbian” tossed around online (or within the lesbian community), but can’t figure out what it means? We’ve got you covered...