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Mark Rosenfeld

Dating & Relationship Coach

Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach based in Norman Park, Australia. He founded his coaching business, Make Him Yours, in 2015. Mark specializes in helping women find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon upon its release.

Education

  • BS, Exercise Science & Wellness
  • BS, Veterinary Science

Certifications & Organizations

  • Completed IFS (Internal Family System Therapy) Level 1
  • Completed IFS (Internal Family System Therapy) Level 2
  • Certification, Authentic Education, Results Coaching
  • Finalist, 2023 Bx Business Award
  • Finalist, 2023 Australian Small Business Champion Award
  • Finalist, 2024 Australian Small Business Champion Award

Favorite Piece of Advice

  • YOU are responsible for your reality!
  • Invest in men who invest in you.
  • The definition of insanity is being the same person you've always been and expecting a different result.

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Does he like me or is he just being nice?
If someone likes you, they'll be responsive, enthusiastic, and enjoy talking to you. If they bring up topics that you've mentioned before, ask you about your interests, and initiate conversations with you, it's a sign that they're interested. If you mention spending time together and they just say, "Maybe sometime," or avoid you after that, it's a sign that they're probably not as into it.
How do I rizz up a boy?
At the beginning of a conversation, make good eye contact and hold it to let a guy know how interested you are, then follow it up with a smile. Make it obvious that you're eyeing him up so he feels like he can have a conversation with you. Once you're actually in conversation and you're talking, try things like facing your body toward him, subtle touches on his shoulder or elbow, and having playful little competitions with him.

Another classic flirting technique is push-pull. Put very simply, push-pull is where you are pushing the guy away with your words, but you're pulling him in with your body language or your actions. So in other words, you might look him in the eyes, smile, and say, "I don't think you could handle me." If you can have fun teasing him and being silly, it can be really fun and flirty if it's not bringing him down.
I don't know how to talk to my crush
I think sometimes people get caught up in the exact words to say; the words are much less important than energy. You can throw out the most interesting topic, and if you write it like your grandma would write a text, it's going to fall flat. The same applies to the phone or face-to-face conversations, though obviously, you're in a more real-time environment.

You share energy with statements. If I say, "Hey, I went to the library today, it was really hot, and I saw the best dog on the way home," there are so many things in what I just said that you could give an energetic, great response to. I've already given you more than enough that you don't have to ask any questions. So look to make statements; look to create good energy and focus a little less on the content and more on the energy, enthusiasm, and life that you bring to the content.
What are some good first date ideas?
I always say the best dates are always free and involve some sort of movement. I think that dinner and a movie are very stagnant dates because it feels like an interview or you can't even have a conversation to begin with. I'm a huge fan of walking and exploring new places. You could go to the mall with a coffee or find a cute neighborhood that you've always wanted to check out. I personally love going to local universities because they're beautiful and it's great for people-watching.
How do I impress my crush without being cringe?
I think having good social energy is one of your best bets if you want someone to notice you that way. Do your best to be visibly social, smile a lot, and seem open and relaxed. If you spend a lot of time around this guy, occasionally flash them some eye contact and a sly smile if you're not directly talking to him. But the social energy is really a key part. Focus on your own friends, have a good time, enjoy the moment, and don't get too lost in your thoughts. He’ll pick up on your energy and be drawn to it. Otherwise, if you happen to see him regularly there's no reason you can't open a conversation. You can comment on something in the environment, comment on something he's wearing, any little thing can get your foot in the door. Just keep it simple and don’t overthink it!
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