How Much Do I Slay?

Find out if you're a total diva, or more of a khia.

To slay or not to slay, that is the question. But slaying isn't just a thing you do. It's a lifestyle and a state of mind. You can't eat and leave no crumbs if you're not truly hungry, after all.

So which is it? Do you slay? Or are you more of a humble chop? Answer a few simple questions, and we'll tell you what kind of diva you are.

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Questions Overview

1. Choose some footwear, regardless of your gender:
  1. Stilettos
  2. Sandals
  3. Sneakers
  4. Barefoot
2. Choose an accessory:
  1. Hoop earrings
  2. Rolex watch
  3. Nose ring
  4. Friendship bracelet
3. Choose a perfume scent to wear:
  1. Vanilla Macaron
  2. Lilac Breeze
  3. Leather Musk
  4. Chai Spice
4. Pick some sunglasses:
  1. Heart eyes
  2. Matrix specs
  3. Aviators
  4. Supersizers
5. Would you snap a selfie and send it to your crush right this moment?
  1. Sure thing, babes. No prob!
  2. Yeah, but hold on, let me get myself together...
  3. Mmmmm.... Can I send an old one instead?
6. Strike a pose!
  1. [Candid]
  2. [Casual]
  3. [Sassy]
  4. [Cute]
  5. [Editorial]
  6. [Model]
7. How's your posture this very moment?
  1. I'm hunched like a shrimp.
  2. My back is straighter than a heterosexual.
  3. It's loose and casual, but not sloppy.
  4. I'm basically twisted into a pretzel.
8. Choose an aesthetic:
  1. Motown singer
  2. Cyberpunk
  3. Coachella
  4. Executive
9. Which mythical creature most matches your vibe?
  1. Mermaid 🧜‍♀️
  2. Alien 👽
  3. Dragon 🐉
  4. Ghost 👻
10. If you became a celebrity tomorrow, what would you want to be famous for?
  1. My music
  2. My acting
  3. Modeling, of course
  4. My personality

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How to Maximize Your Slay

Slay isn't just an adjective, nor is it even a look. It's a state of mind, a queer term that means you know you're all that, and other people better put on sunglasses if they don't want to be blinded by your fierce aura. That's why we talked to top confidence experts to help you slay every day, even when you're feeling more like a chop:

  • Dating coach Chantal Heide says that one quick improvement you can make is standing and sitting with correct posture, with your back straight, head up, and chest out. She says that posture is the first step, because you're "tricking your brain" into acting with confidence.[1]
  • Dating coach Joshua Pompey recommends updating your wardrobe.[2] Too often, we let our clothes fall out of sync with our style and mindset, and finding clothes that reflect the current you helps you slay that much more.
  • Licensed clinical psychologist Ashley Smith, PhD, talks to us about confidence and says that, "When it comes to really building confidence, the only way I know how to do that is through experience." She recommends taking risks to see what works, and what makes you feel good.[3]
  • Etiquette and professional presence coach Toni Purvis says that "Confidence is something you exercise, the more you do it, the more confident you become."[4]
  • Aesthetics and self-improvement coach Rorz agrees, and says that mindset it everything. "Everything starts from inside," and if you don't convince yourself that you're slaying, others won't buy it either.[5]

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References

  1. ↑ Chantal Heide. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  2. ↑ Joshua Pompey. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  3. ↑ Ashley Smith, PhD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Expert Interview
  4. ↑ Toni Purvis. Etiquette and Professional Presence Coach. Expert Interview
  5. ↑ Rorz. Aesthetics & Self-Improvement Coach. Expert Interview