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I took this test got possibly bi or pan. Oh and my parents don't know and idk how to come out to them

WikiBadgerWhisperer264
WikiBadgerWhisperer264
10/15/25 5:08pm
Yo, I have been calling myself queer for about almost a year, then yesterday my best gay guy friend and I were talking and he randomly says and I quote "You give me bi vibes." so I took this test got possibly bi or pan. But before I took a different test and got queer. Oh and my parents dont know and idk how to come out to them. Help plz. Crying inside
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Nico Moloff
Nico Moloff
10/19/25 4:06am
Ok, so please don't go off of these quizzes to find out a big part of your identity. If you think you're bia or pan that's a different story. There's no easy way to come out to your parents, so my only advice for that is make sure it is safe. If it's not a safe situation for you to come out - DON'T. Your safety is important.
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WikiMongooseReader947
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02/02/26 12:55pm
If you think you are big or pan, the find a safe, quiet time to explain and answer their questions. If you only say that because of the quiz, then think about if thats how you identify, or just what wiki how says. Also. If you are not comfortable coming out and/or it is not safe, than don't. I'm not saying don't come out at all, but wait till its safe AND you are comfortable. My home is perfectly safe, and it took me over a year to come out as pansexual with my family, and a few months with my friends. Your safety matters, but so does weather you are comfortable coming out or not.
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Nonbinary is real
Nonbinary is real
12/15/25 8:17pm
It's just a quiz. Don't come out to them as bi or pan unless you are bi or pan. If you are, I'm on your side!
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