how do I talk to my crush if he doesn't know I exist?
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I really have a crush on this boy in my school, but I don't think he knows I exist. how can a teen like me walk up to the most popular guy in the school, and at least say hi?. what do y'all think about this situation?
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Sorry imsoinlovewithuuu but she shouldn’t start immediately by saying hi cs then he’ll be like “what the”? Since he doesn’t rlly know abt her what I would say to do coming from guy that’s like ur crush school wise. I would if yk one of his hg that would work like u could tell her like “ohh I think he’s cute” or wtv or u could if u have a class w him js get closer to him nd make small talk. But make sure to be nice but not overly friendly.
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this is rlly helpful especially from a guy cuz I'm in the same situation, what if ur in different grades but u have mutual friends?
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Ok I’ve actually been in that situation so it depends if ur mutual frens are in their grade then what I do is I tell them to bring me up in a convo then see what they do or have them ask what they think of u.
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LOLL I DIDNT THINK OF THAT. That was my advice because that's how I dated one of the popular guys at my school then we broke up like..a while ago..(month maybe?) that was my scenario
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Dangggg I should a had him baggedddd🥹
But yea lowk if a girl ion rlly talk to like that came up nd said hi or sum but I thought she was pretty I’d prolly talk to her
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But yea lowk if a girl ion rlly talk to like that came up nd said hi or sum but I thought she was pretty I’d prolly talk to her
I feel like you should just try your best to be nearby to him sometimes so then when he finally does realize that you exist , he sees that he sees you everywhere. Then yo could talk to him and get to know him (and hopefully date him🤞)
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Hi, so I am in the complete OPPOSITE situation this dude has a crush on me and he THINKS I don’t know he exists but I definitely do, he’s kind of the… silent class clown you get what I’m saying, I’m not rly into guys ( Sorry Mason, ur a good dude tho ) anyway point I’m trying to make is maybe they DO know u exist and they just act like he doesn’t know becuz he thinks it makes him look cool chances are he does if u go talk to him, worst thing he can say is no good luck!🍀
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if you have any class with him you could use that as an opportunity to talk to him and gradually become friends ( work on my crush and now I think him likes me back BUT it might not be the same with you ) never hurts to try
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okay so what if I don't have any classes with him, but he just started noticing me?
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I have the same exact situation! luckily one of my good friends is his best friend and I have other friends who are friends with him, I'm a year younger than him but my friends have kinda dropped hints to him and now I smile at him and give him looks and he smiles and stares at me a lot, so see if u have any mutual friends that rlly helps!!
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Oooooooo so like now me seeing that he stares at u a lot then smiling to oooooooo. Ngl u in a good spot nowwww u js go talk to him and make eye contact see if he holds it like me I’ll usally hold it longer with girls I find attractive than others.
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Start off by saying hi. Then make small talk. Get there number and become friends, then tell him you like him on you own time.
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Wave hi everyday, make eye contact and simply smile! Kindness is the best quality! It's normal to feel nervous about approaching someone you like, especially if you think they don't know you exist.My bsf pissed me off so bad talking about a guy that didn't know her but I helped and BOOM! Started dating. Just start getting in the same spaces. Are there shared classes, clubs, or common areas where he spends time? Being consistently present makes you a familiar face and REMOVES the awkwardness when you eventually do speak, like no filter. Follow him on social media! & when you feel ready to get close to him, focus on casual, relevant topics to break the ice.The easiest way to start a conversation is to use the place youre both in.
Classes: "Hey, are you also in Mr. Smith's history class? That homework was tough" [3].
School Events: "Did you see the score from the game last night?" or "Are you going to the pep rally this Friday?"
Ask for Help or an Opinion: People generally like to help others.
"Excuse me, do you know what time the library closes?" [3]
"I'm trying to figure out which elective to take next semester, do you have any recommendations?"
Keep it SHORTTTTT and Friendly: The first conversation doesn't need to last long. A quick, friendly exchange is successful. End it naturally: "Anyway, I gotta run to class, see you around" [3].
Fake it 'til you make it: Approaching someone can be nerve-wracking, but projecting a confident, friendly attitude helps. Remember that most people are flattered when someone talks to them [3].
Manage Expectations: Your first conversation is just about breaking the ice and establishing a connection. The goal isn't to ask him out immediately, but rather to show him you are approachable and interesting [3].
Be Yourself: Authenticity is attractive. Don't try to be someone you're not to impress him ur not.
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Classes: "Hey, are you also in Mr. Smith's history class? That homework was tough" [3].
School Events: "Did you see the score from the game last night?" or "Are you going to the pep rally this Friday?"
Ask for Help or an Opinion: People generally like to help others.
"Excuse me, do you know what time the library closes?" [3]
"I'm trying to figure out which elective to take next semester, do you have any recommendations?"
Keep it SHORTTTTT and Friendly: The first conversation doesn't need to last long. A quick, friendly exchange is successful. End it naturally: "Anyway, I gotta run to class, see you around" [3].
Fake it 'til you make it: Approaching someone can be nerve-wracking, but projecting a confident, friendly attitude helps. Remember that most people are flattered when someone talks to them [3].
Manage Expectations: Your first conversation is just about breaking the ice and establishing a connection. The goal isn't to ask him out immediately, but rather to show him you are approachable and interesting [3].
Be Yourself: Authenticity is attractive. Don't try to be someone you're not to impress him ur not.
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