What Am I Into Sexually?

Take this quiz to discover the kinks that drive you crazy!

Have you ever wondered about what you’re into? Like, really into? If you’re curious to discover your deepest sexual desires, then this quiz is for you!

Answer these quick, steamy (and totally confidential) questions, and we’ll tell you everything you need to know. To get started, click “Start Quiz” now.

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Questions Overview

1. When you’re hooking up with someone, do you prefer to take the lead or follow someone else’s lead?
  1. I definitely like to take the lead.
  2. I like a little of both! It depends on the other person.
  3. I prefer to follow someone else’s lead.
  4. I don't know (or I don't care).
2. Does hooking up with someone in a car or a park after dark sound exciting to you?
  1. Absolutely. That sounds amazing.
  2. The risk is exciting, but it doesn't totally drive me wild.
  3. I think I'd be more nervous than excited honestly, but I'd try it.
  4. Definitely not. I wouldn’t enjoy that.
3. Would you ever hook up with more than one person at a time?
  1. Definitely, that sounds great.
  2. I'd be down to try, but it’s not something I’d do all the time.
  3. Probably not.
  4. Never. I definitely only want one partner at a time, please.
4. Does what the other person is wearing make you more or less excited?
  1. Absolutely. If someone is wearing something really hot, that’s the most exciting thing to me.
  2. Sure! It makes a difference if they’re wearing something hot—but it’s not the most important thing to me.
  3. It makes a little difference to me, but not a huge difference.
  4. No, it makes no difference to me what the other person is wearing.
5. Do you like to show a lot of skin with your everyday outfits?
  1. The more skin, the better. I love to be seen.
  2. I definitely like to show skin sometimes, but not all the time.
  3. Only on rare occasions do I enjoy that.
  4. No I never enjoy that.
6. How sexually adventurous are you?
  1. Super adventurous. I'll try anything at least once.
  2. Pretty adventurous. I'll try most things, but definitely not anything.
  3. I like trying new things sometimes, but overall I keep it pretty tame.
  4. I'm pretty vanilla. I stick to what I like!
7. Do you like the idea of roleplaying in the bedroom?
  1. Yes! A little fantasy totally does it for me.
  2. Sure, I could get into it—but only if it was a fantasy I was especially into.
  3. Maybe. I’ve never considered that before, but it could be fun.
  4. No, I would definitely never enjoy that.
8. What's more important to you when it comes to attraction: emotional connection or physical attraction?
  1. Emotional connection all the way. I need to feel a bond.
  2. Mostly emotional connection, some physical attraction.
  3. Mostly physical attraction, some emotional connection.
  4. All physical attraction. For me to feel turned on, that matters way more.
9. Are you into building things with kissing and feeling first, or do you prefer to jump right in?
  1. Honestly, I prefer just to kiss and feel a bit. We don’t even have to go further than that.
  2. I definitely like to build things, but I don’t want to wait too long.
  3. I’m okay with a little bit, but I’d prefer jumping right in.
  4. I want to jump right into the hookup.
10. Do you like to talk or be vocal while hooking up with someone?
  1. Yes! Talking makes it way more exciting.
  2. I like to talk, but not constantly.
  3. I only talk on occasion.
  4. I never talk, I feel like that distracts from the physical connection.
11. Do you like to watch steamy movies to get in the mood?
  1. I love it. It gets me immersed in the fantasy!
  2. I like it sometimes, but it's not always my thing.
  3. Only if that's what my partner wants.
  4. No, I don't really find it all that hot.
12. Would you ever take spicy pictures of yourself?
  1. Absolutely. That sounds like fun!
  2. Probably, but not too spicy!
  3. Maybe, but I'd keep them totally private and only for myself.
  4. No, I don't feel comfortable with that.

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Enjoying Safe Sex

Whether you’re super tame or totally wild in the bedroom, it’s important to stay safe when you have sex. It’s not just pleasure that’s on the line, but your own health and emotional well-being! That’s why we’re here to give you a sexual safety rundown:

Set Boundaries.
Boundaries are what help you and your partner feel totally safe and comfortable while you have fun. Before you get down to business, make sure you clarify what’s on the table, and what’s off-limits. And if you’re getting especially adventurous, choose a safe word so you can stop at a moment’s notice if anything feels wrong.

Get Consent.
Consent is basically permission to have sex. It has to be clear and, preferably, verbal, before you start having fun. Consent is also continuous, and can be taken away at any moment. If you or your partner ever want to stop being intimate, you can stop anytime, and that needs to be respected.

Stay Protected.
Before you do anything, it’s vital to know your STD status, so you or your partner aren’t spreading life-altering sexually transmitted diseases. Get tested! It’s no big deal. Then, decide on whether or not wearing protection or taking birth control is right for you. Condoms don’t only prevent pregnancy, they stop diseases, too! Safe sex is healthy sex!

Have Fun!
More than anything, sex should be fun, especially if you’re having adventurous sex, or anything more than vanilla. Check in with yourself and ask yourself if you’re enjoying things. If not, there’s no shame in stepping back.

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