Joseph S
Joseph S
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I don't know what to do with my life
Yeah I've been feeling like this a long time and I am 28 now. The best thing I've figured out is just to try to have patience with oneself, keep an open & curious mind about other paths whenever possible, and to try to remember that you don't HAVE to be stuck where you're at if you don't want to be, ie nobody's holding you at gunpoint to do what you're doing. I know though the feeling is really miserable and it's so easy to get sucked into it and get stuck.
Try to use any off-time you have to look at any material that might help - perhaps it's reading articles or watching videos online about fun or interesting things one way or another, or perhaps it's hearing from some friends about what they like doing. Anything that could provide some kind of inspiration.
I've found keeping this in mind helps stave off the negativity somewhat, and to try to have some curiosity about what might be a good way forward. Any little bit counts. I really wish you the best with this and I hope this comment can help somewhat!
Try to use any off-time you have to look at any material that might help - perhaps it's reading articles or watching videos online about fun or interesting things one way or another, or perhaps it's hearing from some friends about what they like doing. Anything that could provide some kind of inspiration.
I've found keeping this in mind helps stave off the negativity somewhat, and to try to have some curiosity about what might be a good way forward. Any little bit counts. I really wish you the best with this and I hope this comment can help somewhat!
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What! 15?? Who cares about that statistic... Everybody's situation is different. I'm 28 and I haven't had my first yet either, nor do I even think I want it! Don't pay mind to shallow societal 'statistics,' instead understand what you yourself want and if you want to be with somebody and kiss, do so under purely your own volition.
I went thru that mindset too not far from your same age, but I found out how toxic that mentality was. I hope you can understand it really isn't worth chasing society's "you should be here by now" ideals, they're horrible and just make you feel worse about yourself. Reject society, embrace your own knowledge & power!
I wish you the very best, I know this isn't easy. Self-comparison is just a rabbit hole to heck, honestly. Remember that it's okay if the anxiety isn't gonna disappear overnight, just keep what's said in mind.
PS: I feel strongly enough about this that you motivated me to create an account!
I went thru that mindset too not far from your same age, but I found out how toxic that mentality was. I hope you can understand it really isn't worth chasing society's "you should be here by now" ideals, they're horrible and just make you feel worse about yourself. Reject society, embrace your own knowledge & power!
I wish you the very best, I know this isn't easy. Self-comparison is just a rabbit hole to heck, honestly. Remember that it's okay if the anxiety isn't gonna disappear overnight, just keep what's said in mind.
PS: I feel strongly enough about this that you motivated me to create an account!
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