This article was co-authored by Emyli Lovz and by wikiHow staff writer, Annabelle Reyes. Emyli Lovz is a dating and relationship coach for men based in San Francisco, CA. With 14 years of experience, Emyli is the co-founder of emlovz alongside her husband Thomas, whom she met during a 100-date experiment at UC Berkeley. Research findings from the experiment and the data collected from male and female clients over the past 14 years are the foundation for her coaching program, Dating Decoded. Now with a team of 10 coaches, emlovz is dedicated to helping men and women find and maintain loving, healthy, and lasting relationships and empowering them to achieve their dating and relationship goals. In addition to Dating Decoded, she also offers Relationships Decoded, helping people to not only find a long-term partner but an enduring, thriving relationship. Since 2012, Emyli has guided thousands of men, and her work has been featured in Forbes, Business Insider, Newsweek, USA Today, LA Weekly, Maxim, and more.
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If there’s anyone who knows how to put the feeling of love into words, it’s definitely poets! From William Shakespeare to Emily Dickinson to E.E. Cummings, poets have poured their hearts out into their work, turning their experiences of longing and affection into art. If you’re looking for a love poem to send your boo for Valentine's Day, an anniversary, or just because, you’ve come to the right place! We’ve compiled a list of some of the best romantic poems out there. We’ve even included expert tips from professional poets if you want to try your hand at writing your own love poem, so keep reading!
The Best Romantic Love Poems
Steps
Expert Advice for Writing Your Own Love Poem
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1Be specific about what you love about them. Instead of saying general things about love in your poem, writer Adrienne Raphel recommends focusing on the specific things that make this person so special to you. “This isn’t just, ‘How do I love thee for the ages?’ It’s ‘No, how do I love you, you specific other creature on this planet.’ It’s about what you see in them,” she explains. “Being as specific as you can [comes] across on the page as such an expression of love because love is noticing, and love is paying attention.”[5]
- This is a great way to start your writing process! Grab a piece of paper and a pen, and start brainstorming a list of the special, unique things that make you love your partner so much.
- From there, you might fight that writing your poem comes super naturally for you, since you already have so many beautiful things about your partner listed out!
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2Listen to some love songs or look at romantic art. “I often find inspiration for romantic writing not in literature itself, but in music or in art,” explains Raphel. “When one is trying to write something romantic, it can be really intimidating to read a lot of great love poetry because you’re like, ‘They’ve already written it.’ So, I think that can be very intimidating.” Instead, Raphel recommends listening to a song you love or experiencing some other art form, and then trying to write based on the feeling it creates in you.[6]
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3Use a famous love poem as inspiration. “Take a poem that’s your favorite poem or a poem you just love, and steal from it. All writers steal! What I mean by that is copy your favorite aspect of it,” Raphel explains.[7] For example, maybe you love Shakespeare’s “Sonnet 18”. In this poem, Shakespeare compares his lover to a summer day, arguing that she is even more beautiful. You could use this concept to inspire your poem—just pick something absolutely gorgeous, and write about how your partner is even more lovely than that thing!
- Or, maybe you love the way a poem sounds when you read it aloud. In this case, Raphel explains that you could use the same rhyme scheme (rhyming on lines two and four, for example), to mimic the poem’s flow and sound.[8]
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4Experiment with different formats and poetry styles. “There’s no black-and-white way that you must format your poem–that’s really up to the creator,” explains professional poet Alicia Cook. “You could do the standard metered and rhymed poetry. There’s haikus. You can do free form, or free verse poetry…things like that.”[9] Take some time to try out a few different formats, then go with the one that feels most natural to you!
- If you do decide to write a poem that rhymes, Cook recommends rhymezone.com as a good resource. “You basically type in the word you want to use, and it brings up all the rhymes. And not just that—it brings up something called near rhymes, so the words that sound to the ear like they rhyme, even though they don’t really.”[10]
- This is super helpful if you really want to use a specific word, but you’re having trouble finding a rhyme on your own!
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
- ↑ Emyli Lovz. Dating and Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.umass.edu/gso/rumi/rumi7.htm
- ↑ Emyli Lovz. Dating and Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/7727436-no-it-won-t-be-love-at-first-sight-when-we
- ↑ Adrienne Raphel. Writer. Expert Interview
- ↑ Adrienne Raphel. Writer. Expert Interview
- ↑ Adrienne Raphel. Writer. Expert Interview
- ↑ Adrienne Raphel. Writer. Expert Interview
- ↑ Alicia Cook. Professional Poet. Expert Interview
- ↑ Alicia Cook. Professional Poet. Expert Interview
- https://www.poetryfoundation.org/collections/145134/love-poems
- https://poets.org/love-poems
- https://www.rd.com/list/love-poems-for-him/













