150+ Lesbian Pickup Lines to Get a Girl’s Attention

Looking for a way to charm your crush and get to first base? Well, look no further because we know just what you can say to pick up the girl of your dreams. The pickup lines will amp up your flirting game while also showing what team you play on. Try out one or more of these flirty, funny, or dirty pickup lines the next time you want to gauge a girl’s interest or ask her out.

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“Let me tie your shoes. I don’t want you falling for anyone else.”
“Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your eyes.”
“Les-bi-honest, you were just checking me out.”
“Did we go to school together? I swear we had chemistry.”
“I envy the coffee cup that kisses your lips each morning.”

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Flirty Lesbian Pickup Lines

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Make your attraction obvious with a cheeky pickup line. Why be subtle when you can be forward? If you’re feeling bold, drop one of these flirtatious and confident pickup lines to let her know you’re interested:
- “Is your mother looking for a daughter-in-law?”
- “Is it just me, or do we have some serious chemistry?”
- “I need to get some fresh air. You’ve taken my breath away.”
- “I’m an organ donor. Want my heart?”
- “I think there’s something wrong with my phone. Your number’s not in it.”
- “I’m researching important dates in history. Would you like to be mine?”
- “Forget about Wonder Woman and Superwoman. I want to be your woman.”
- “Let me tie your shoes. I don’t want you falling for anyone else.”
- “Are you into girls who like girls? Because I think we’d be a cute couple.”
- “Is it just me, or is it hot in here? Oh wait, it’s just you.”
- “Excuse me, but I think you dropped something: my jaw.”
- “If looks could kill, you’d be a weapon of mass destruction.”
- “Can you lend me a kiss? I promise I’ll give it back.”
- “If kisses were snowflakes, I’d send you a blizzard.”
- “Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your eyes.”
- “You must be a bank loan because you have my interest.”
- “I wasn’t looking for love, but then I saw you.”
- “Hey, do you have a few minutes for me to hit on you?”
- “If you were a steak, you’d be rare and well done.”
- “I just bought kiss-proof lipstick. Want to test it out?”
- “What’s your favorite drink? I’m asking so I know what to buy you on our first date.”
- “They say dating is a numbers game, so can I get yours?”
- “I hope someone knows CPR because you just took my breath away.”
- “I was wondering if you had an extra heart since you just stole mine.”
- “If being beautiful was a crime, you’d be guilty as charged.”
- “Kiss me if I’m wrong, but dinosaurs still exist, right?”

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Funny Lesbian Pickup Lines

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Get her to laugh with a silly or clever pickup line. Laughter is a great way to lighten the mood and grab her attention. Slide into a conversation with a cheeky joke or clever line that’s sure to make her smile.
- “I’m bisexual. Can I bi you a shot?”
- “Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?”
- “When I’m around you, I can’t think straight.”
- “Do you have sunburn, or are you always this hot?”
- “If you were a fruit, you’d be a fineapple.”
- “Let’s flip a coin. Heads, you’re mine. Tails, I’m yours.”
- “Les-bi-honest, you were just checking me out.”
- “If you were words on a page, you’d be the fine print.”
- “Are you a time traveler? Because I can see you in my future.”
- “Is your name Waldo? Because someone like you is hard to find.”
- “Is your name Ariel? Because we mermaid for each other.”
- “I like my men how I like my coffee. I don’t like coffee.”
- “I’m no firefighter, but you can’t be walking around this hot.”
- “Can I follow you home? My parents told me to follow my dreams.”
- “You must be tired because you’ve been running through my mind all day.”
- “If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I together.”
- “Are you an electrician? Because you’ve just sparked something in me.”
- “Do you play soccer? Because you’ve just scored a goal in my heart.”
- “Are you the moon? Because I can’t stop orbiting around you.”
- “If I make a smoothie, will lesbians come to my yard? Because milkshakes bring the boys that I don’t want.”
- “They say nothing lasts forever. Want to be my nothing?”
- “Are you a charger? Because I’m dying without you.”
- “Is there an airport nearby, or is that my heart taking off?”
- “If you and I were socks, we’d make a great pair.”
- “Did you just come out of an oven? Because you’re too hot to handle.”
- “Do you like raisins? No? Well, how about dates?”

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Cute Lesbian Pickup Lines

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Make her blush with a sweet and endearing pickup line. Sometimes, subtlety is key. These pickup lines are perfect for when you want to gauge her interest but not be too forward. Plus, they’ll make you seem extra precious!
- “Did we go to school together? I swear we had chemistry.”
- “I bet you’ve gotten in trouble for driving all of us girls crazy.”
- “Excuse me, but I think the stars are outshined by your smile tonight.”
- “Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile.”
- “If you were a vegetable, you’d be a cute-cumber.”
- “Are you an angel? Because heaven is missing one.”
- “If I were a cat, I’d spend all nine lives with you.”
- “You’re so sweet you’re giving me a toothache.”
- “Are you a lightbulb? Because you just brightened my day.”
- “You must be a shooting star because you’ve brightened up my whole sky.”
- “You’re like a puzzle, and I’m loving every second of figuring you out.”
- “You’ve got me wrapped around your finger, and I’m not even mad about it.”
- “With you, every moment must feel like magic.”
- “Are we playing hide and seek? Because I’m already lost in you.”
- “I’m good at math. Give me your number, and I’ll see what I can do with it.”
- “You’re on my mind so much I should start charging you rent.”
- “No pen. No paper. But you still draw my attention.”
- “Excuse me while I delete my dating apps.”
- “This must be a museum because you’re a work of art.”
- “You must be a dog person because you look fetching.”
- “I didn’t even have to run to catch these butterflies.”
- “I’m not even playing cards, but somehow I pulled a queen.”
- “All the good pickup lines are taken, but you aren’t.”
- “If you were a triangle, you’d be acute one.”
- “Anyone who says Disney is the happiest place on earth has never stood next to you.”
- “Guess what I’m wearing? The smile you gave me.”

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Cringey Lesbian Pickup Lines

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Cause a laugh with a line that’s so bad it hurts. Who says dad jokes are only for dads? Pull out your corniest and silliest lines to make her giggle and swoon. Here are some examples:
- “I lost my number. Can I have yours?”
- “If beauty were time, you’d be an eternity.”
- “You look like my next girlfriend.”
- “Is your name Google? Because you’re everything I’m searching for.”
- “Are you a WiFi signal? Because I’m feeling a connection.”^{[1]
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- “Are you an appendix? Because I don’t know how you work, but this feeling in my stomach makes me want to take you out.”
- “Do you have a pencil? I want to erase your past and write our future.”
- “Feels to me like your girlfriend material.”
- “Here I am! Now, what are your other two wishes?”
- “Do you have a name, or can I just call you mine?”
- “It’s a good thing same-sex marriage is legal here because I’m already planning our wedding.”
- “Are you a campfire? Because you’re hot, and I want s’more.”
- “Roses are red, violets are blue; it would be a shame if I couldn’t date you!”
- “Are you a parking ticket? Because you have ‘fine’ written all over you.”
- “Did you place an order? Cause you have good vibes headed your way!”
- “Are we at the zoo? Because I think I found the queen of my jungle.”
- “Is your dad a boxer? Because you’re a knockout.”
- “I’m lost. Can you give me directions to your heart?”
- “Are you a keyboard? Because you might be my type.”
- “Do you play soccer? Because you’re a keeper.”
- “Are you an artist? Because you’re really good at drawing me in.”
- “On a scale of 1 to 10, you’re a 9 because I’m the 1 you need.”
- “Do you have a mirror? Because I can see us together.”
- “You’re looking a little sick. You must be suffering from a lack of Vitamin Me.”
- “Are you French? Because Eiffel for you.”
- “Did you eat magnets for breakfast? You’re so attractive.”
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Michelle Jacoby is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder and CEO of DC Matchmaking, a privately owned, boutique matchmaking company based in Washington, DC, Maryland, and Virginia. She is also the Co-Founder of The Matchmakers Alliance, an international industry organization for matchmakers. With over 12 years of experience, Michelle specializes in one-on-one matchmaking and group coaching to help singles find healthy, lasting relationships. She has been featured in several media publications such as The Washington Post, Self, and NPR. Michelle holds a BA in Psychology from George Washington University. She is also a Certified Matchmaker from The Matchmakers Institute as well as a Certified Body Language Expert from The Body Language Institute.

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Be authentic when meeting someone for the first time. Whether you have a first date planned or see someone across a room, remember to be yourself. Use a pickup line that speaks to who you are.

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Dirty Lesbian Pickup Lines

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Be bold with a sexy, over-the-top pickup line. Feeling confident? These pickup lines are extra juicy and will put your attraction right out in the open. Just be sure you’re ready for some sexual tension before dealing these lines out.
- “Your face or mine?”
- “You look busy, but please add me to your list of things to do.”
- “I’m looking for treasure. Mind if I explore?”
- “I envy the coffee cup that kisses your lips each morning.”
- “How do lesbians make love? It’s complicated. I’d have to show you.”
- “Want to play rock paper scissors?”
- “Hey, can I borrow your lipstick and your lips?”^{[2]
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- “I love my bed, but I’d prefer to be in yours.”
- “You’re a complete package. Need help unwrapping?”
- “Are you a clothing store? Because you have a nice rack.”
- “I have so many knives and forks, but I’m looking for a little spoon.”
- “Are you a magician? Because when you walk by, my clothes disappear in my mind.”
- “I must be a light switch because you’ve got me turned on.”
- “You must be a fire alarm because you’re making me hot and bothered.”
- “You’re like a math problem. I want to work you out all night long.”
- “You have two cats? Can I see the third?”
- “Dinner first, or should we skip to dessert?”
- “If you were Eve and I was Adam, I would’ve eaten the whole garden.”
- “Do you have a name, or can I call you mine?”
- “I was feeling off today, but you totally turned me on.”
- “I’ve been practicing massage techniques. Care to be my volunteer?”
- “Do you know how to stop, drop, and roll? Because you’re on fire.”
- “You look like a tall drink of water, and I’m parched.”
- “Toss me your car keys so I can drive you crazy.”
- “I can’t taste my cherry chapstick. Can you give it a try?”

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Lesbian Pickup Lines About Shared Interests

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Share something about yourself with your opening line. Are you a lover of all things Star Wars? Do you have an obsession with superheroes or soccer? Don’t be afraid to show your geeky side when you first approach her! This is a great way to share something about yourself while also seeing if she gets your reference.
- “If true love were an Infinity Stone, I’d be searching for you.”
- “Did it hurt when you fell from Asgard? Because you are a goddess.”
- “Are you Catwoman? Because you stole my heart in one fast move.”
- “Is your name Marvel? Because our story feels like it could last an Infinity War.”
- “Is your phaser set to stunning?”
- “Some people want to catch them all, but all I want is to catch your heart.”
- “Want to be my player 2?”
- “I’m a Seeker. Are you my Golden Snitch?”
- “Is your name Hermione? Because you’re the brightest witch of my life.”
- “Do you believe in love at first spell?”
- “Are you a soccer net? Because I’m aiming for nothing but goals with you.”
- “Are you a soccer coach? Because I’d love you to show me the tactics to winning your heart.”
- “If love were a programming language, you’d be my favorite function.”
- “If I were a Jedi, I’d use the Force to make you fall for me.”
- “Yoda only one for me.”
- “You must be a droid because you R2-fine.”
- “Are you a superhero? Because you just saved my day.”
- “Are you a spell? Because you’ve enchanted me.”
- “You must be a dragon because you just set my heart on fire.”
- “Are you a rogue? Because you just stole my heart.”
- “Is your nickname D20? Because you’ve been rolling through my mind all night.”
- “I don’t need a TARDIS to travel through time when I have your heart to guide me.”
- “Funny, I lost my queen in the last game, but I think I just found her.”
- “You’re sweeter than 3.14.”
- “You must be a 90-degree angle because you’re looking right.”

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How to Flirt as a Lesbian

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Compliment her. The most direct way to show your attraction is to give her a compliment—tell her what you find attractive about her. Not only is this a great way to start a conversation, but it also shows that you’re paying attention to her.^{[3]
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- Make your compliments specific and targeted to show a genuine attraction that goes beyond friendship.
- For example, try saying something like, “Your shirt really makes your eyes pop,” or “I like the way your smile lights up the room.”
Telepathically pass your emotions by locking eyes with her. This can capture her attention, especially if your gaze lingers. You can even use your locked gaze as an invitation to approach her.^{[4]
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An “accidental” touch can do wonders when you’re flirting with a woman. After all, mistakes happen, and you may bump into someone accidentally, but when you do it more than once, it’s a clear sign you’re trying to get her attention romantically. So, playfully touch her shoulder, elbow, forearm, or hand while talking to gage your connection.^{[5]
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Casually mention your preferences. If you’re not sure which team she plays on or if she’s picking up your advances, subtly mention you’re a lesbian. This doesn’t have to be an outright confession. Simply casually bring up a past girlfriend or even a gay spot you frequently visit.
- For instance, you could say, “My ex-girlfriend and I used to go there all the time! Do they still have those wacky fries?” or “I went to Pride last year and worked on a lesbian float with my friends. It was super fun. Have you ever gone?”
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Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of The Centered Self, a therapy practice focused on women’s mental health, and Transcendent Self Therapy, a group practice that uses creative therapeutic approaches to support those who feel misunderstood, marginalized, or outside the norm. With nearly 20 years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in hormonal and fertility-related concerns, as well as working with creatively inclined individuals navigating identity, emotional depth, and life transitions. She offers individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and Costume Therapy—a unique modality she developed. Dr. Berasi holds a doctorate in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University, a master’s degree from Columbia University, and completed her postdoctoral training at Columbia as well.

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Meet lesbians at LGBTQ+ events and gatherings. Find potential partners in places where you feel accepted. Join a queer club at your school, or attend LBGTQ+ events like Pride.

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How can you tell if a lesbian likes you?

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Close contact and compliments could be signs a lesbian likes you. If a girl likes you, chances are, she’ll go out of her way to be near you, look her best, and make sure you feel special. She may even be super straightforward and ask about your sexual preferences! Here are some of the most common ways to tell if a lesbian likes you:^{[6]
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- She frequently “accidentally” touches you.
- She compliments you often.
- She holds eye contact with you.
- She leans in closer when you talk.^{[7]
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- She makes excuses to be around you.
- She seems flustered or nervous around you.
- She puts effort into how she looks when around you.
- She openly flirts with you.
- She asks about your sexual preferences.

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