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Sometimes, regular dating apps just don’t cut it, especially if you’re transgender. Some apps may incorrectly flag your profile, while others may be crawling with catfish. Luckily, there are plenty of trans-centered dating apps for you. In this article, we detail some of those apps and dive into some of the other places you can meet transgender people. Read on for more!

Best Trans Dating Apps

  • Taimi: An LGBTQ+ dating and social networking app designed for inclusivity.
  • HER: A dating app designed for queer and FLINT (female, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, and agender) folks.
  • OkCupid: A trans-friendly matchmaking app with a wide range of gender selections.
  • Lex: A text-based dating and social networking app designed for LGBTQ+ folks.
  • Hinge: A trans-friendly app designed to help you make strong, lasting connections.
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Dating Apps for Transgender People

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  1. Taimi is one of the most popular LGBTQ+ dating apps, with over 18 million users. It also has a wide range of customization features, such as declaring whether you’re monogamous or polyamorous, what your specific aesthetic is, and what types of people you’re into. So, if you’re looking for a safe, fun space for transgender people (and someone to take out on a date), check out Taimi.[1]
    • Pros: Lots of gender options
    • Cons: Potential for catfishes and fetishizers
  2. HER is a dating app that was made for queer and FLINTA (female, lesbian, intersex, non-binary, trans, and agender) folks. It switches things up from the traditional dating app formula and makes you scroll through a page before being able to click a heart (interested) or X (pass), so you have to really study a person before deciding whether or not you like them.[2]
    • Pros: Strong community-based features that ease romantic pressure. The lower ‘like-or-not’ buttons open the door for deeper, more heartfelt interactions, which are great if you’re looking for someone you really connect with.
    • Cons: Small user base.
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  3. Lex is a text-based dating app that lets you include one photo, then write small 300-character blurbs. It was initially built for dating, but has since transformed into a community app for members of the LGBTQ+ community. So if you’re looking for a place where you can date transgender people and make friends, download Lex.[3]
    • Pros: Text-centric UI fosters connection and community on a deeper level.
    • Cons: Lower user base outside of large cities. Users also report low moderation.
  4. Trans is literally made for you to connect with other transgender people. It’s mainly geared towards transgender folks, but cisgender people are also active on the app. With Trans, you have a safe space where you can swipe on those you like, meet people like you, have meaningful conversations, and get that loving spark lit![4]
    • Pros: Made specifically for transgender people.
    • Cons: Some users complain about increased paywalls, in-app purchases, and glitches.
  5. OkCupid is one of the older dating apps on this list, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t just as useful as the others. It was the first dating app to expand its initial gender options, showing its long track record of inclusivity. To get involved, all you have to do is make an account, select your gender and preferences, and start matching![5]
    • Pros: Wide range of gender selections, focused on compatible matches.
    • Cons: Large user base creates the possibility of trolls and harassment.
    • Each profile has a match percentage rate, too, so you’ll be able to see how compatible you and another person may be before deciding to pursue them.
      • This can be especially useful for filtering out incompatible, prejudiced, or fetishizing people.
  6. Feeld is a queer-centered dating app with a wide selection of genders to choose from, from trans and agender to two-spirit and gender questioning. You also define your sexuality, explain what you’re looking for, and add photos of yourself, creating that classic dating app feel in a safe space.[6]
    • Pros: Wide range of gender selections and sexualities.
    • Cons: Some users report frequent bugs.
  7. Fiorry is another app made for transgender people and their allies. It’s also geared towards compatibility, as it offers you a compatibility survey after downloading the app. This creates a psychological profile, boiling down your matches to the ones with the most potential for success (and helping you get to know them on a more personal level).[7]
    • Pros: Focused on compatible matches, made for transgender people.
    • Cons: Small user base.
  8. Bumble’s an app you have to be a bit more careful on, as some people may have malicious intent, but if you’re patient and specific about your preferences, you can find an authentic match and get to planning dates quickly! They also have a wide range of gender options, including “Trans man,” “Trans woman,” “Pangender,” “Agender,” and “Genderqueer,” opening up the dating pool for all![8]
    • Pros: Wide range of gender selections and people to swipe from.
    • Cons: Potential for catfishing and encounters with trolls.
    • On less trans-centered apps, some users may catfish as trans people for various reasons, only to later open up in conversation. If you encounter someone like this, report their account and warn others in your community.
    • Although it’s important to be cautious on Bumble as a transgender person, you can still find partners who fit your needs and build new connections.
  9. Hinge is another dating app that’s open to all genders and sexual orientations, but given its focus on finding a strong, compatible match over a quick match, it’s much more intimate (for both trans and cisgender people) than other apps. Its gender-inclusive features and personality-based nature make it a great option if you’re looking for a deep connection with a transgender person.
    • Pros: Focused on compatibility and getting to know people before you swipe.
    • Cons: Smaller dating pool, low swipe count.
  10. Grindr is a classic LGBTQ+ app (and arguably the most popular). While it’s mainly populated by gay men, it’s also a good place to meet fellow transgender people. When making your account, specify your gender and list your preference as transgender people. Then, swipe away!
    • Pros: Designed for the LGBTQ+ community, wide range of gender options.
    • Cons: Smaller trans dating pool, potential for catfishing and harassment.
    • Make sure to be attentive and study the person’s profile when swiping, as some people may strictly be into cisgender men or women.
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Other Ways to Meet Transgender People

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  1. Matchmaker & dating coach Lauren Sanders says you can meet other trans people through meetup groups, like those on meetup.com, as well as LGBTQ+ nightclubs, LGBTQ+ Facebook groups, LGBTQ+ matchmaking services, and LGBTQ+ events like the Pride Parade and Pride Month celebrations.[9]
  2. To meet other trans people, diversity, equity & inclusion consultant Lily Zheng, MA, says, “Seek out communities of other transgender people and supportive allies in your local area or online. Community centers can be a great place to start if they exist in your area.”[10]
    • When you visit the centers, keep an open mind and introduce yourself to the people around you. As you get to know them, you’ll begin to build a community.
  3. If you’d prefer to keep things lowkey and only be around other trans people, look for trans support groups in your area. Some large cities have LGBTQ+ centers that house trans support groups.[11]
    • All you have to do is find local centers near you, head to their websites, and navigate to their transgender & nonbinary support sections.
    • You can also pay a visit to one of these centers in person and ask them about their trans support groups, but checking online is a great alternative if you’d rather be anonymous.
    • There are many online support groups you can check out, too, such as TrevorSpace, Trans Families, Trans Advocacy & Care Team (TACT), and Beyond Trans.
  4. LGBTQ+ bars have been a safe space for LGBTQ+ folks in the United States for a long time, making them a popular place for them to hang out.[12] So, if you’re looking to meet a transgender person, hit up your local LGBTQ+ bar the next time you want a fun night out. While not guaranteed, the odds that you’ll meet a transgender person are fairly high.
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  1. Lily Zheng, MA. Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Consultant. Expert Interview
  2. https://thecentersd.org/support-groups/
  3. https://dukeupress.edu/the-bars-are-ours

About This Article

Lily Zheng, MA
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Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Consultant
This article was co-authored by Lily Zheng, MA and by wikiHow staff writer, Marcus Pruitt, BS. Lily Zheng is a Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Consultant and Executive Coach who works with organizations around the world to build more inclusive and innovative workplaces for all. Lily is the author of Gender Ambiguity in the Workplace: Transgender and Gender-Diverse Discrimination (2018) and The Ethical Sellout: Maintaining Your Integrity in the Age of Compromise (2019). Lily earned her MA in Sociology from Stanford University. This article has been viewed 4,335 times.
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