11 Signs a Scorpio Guy Likes You & Is Trying to Hide It

Professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism explains Scorpio's secretive nature & why he tries to hide his feelings

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Amber Crain

Last Updated: May 11, 2026 Fact Checked

Scorpio guys are dreamy and sensual, but they're also intensely private people, especially at first. As water signs, they feel emotions deeply, and they go to great lengths to hide those feelings from others. If you're wondering why Scorpios act this way and how to decipher their cryptic behavior, you're in the right place! For this article, we consulted wikiHow’s astrology experts to help us explain the signs that a Scorpio is fighting his feelings for you (and why) to help you understand him better. We'll also discuss how to respond to his behavior and get him to reveal his feelings to you. Read on for the full scoop!

Signs a Scorpio Man Likes You (But Is Hiding It)

Professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism says a Scorpio guy will act awkward around you if he’s trying to hide his feelings. Because of his intense nature, he may also stare at you a lot and act jealous if you pay attention to other guys. If he reveals personal details about himself, he likely has feelings for you.

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He’s awkward around you.

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Scorpios get visibly nervous when they’ve caught feelings. Eyedealism says Scorpios meticulously mask their emotions as a rule, but they’re hiding an ocean of vulnerability beneath that controlled exterior.^{[1]
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Expert Interview} If a Scorpio guy seems awkward or bashful around you, it usually means he has feelings for you.
- Why he does it: Scorpios hate losing control, and this is what causes the awkwardness. He may also suddenly get sullen or disappear for a while after acting awkward in front of you. Try not to worry if this happens!
- How to respond: It takes time for a Scorpio guy to get comfortable enough to show his feelings openly. Just keep engaging with him when he's in the mood, and play it cool when he backs off. Your patience will pay off when it comes to understanding this guy.
Meet the wikiHow Experts

Angel Eyedealism is a professional astrologer based in Manhattan. She has 30 years of experience and has been featured in Vogue, Cosmopolitan & more.

Tali & Ophira Edut, also known as the AstroTwins, are astrologers and best-selling authors. They’ve published over 20 books, including their newest, The Astrology Advantage (2024).

Aliza Kelly is an astrologer and author based in New York City. She’s been featured in many publications, including The New York Times, and is a recurring guest on The Drew Barrymore Show.

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He stares at you.

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Scorpios are observers who can’t help but gaze at what they want. Eyedealism says Scorpios are a very intense sign.^{[2]
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Expert Interview} That can manifest in different ways, including staring! Do you feel his eyes on you when you walk by or catch him stealing glances at you throughout the day? Then, when you look up to meet his gaze, he quickly averts his eyes? As a water sign, Scorpios are very in touch with their emotions, but they try to hide them.
- He may even avoid eye contact altogether, especially if he’s on the shy side.
- Why he does it: Astrologers Tali & Ophira Edut say this sign is extremely observant. “You might think that they're not watching you, but they're paying attention to every detail.”^{[3]
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- How to respond: If you catch him staring at you and you lock eyes, just smile at him. Smiling at someone will always be interpreted positively!

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He does little things to show he cares.

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Scorpio may not come out and say it, but his actions betray his feelings. Scorpio is ruled by the icy planet Pluto, which is why this sign can seem cold and emotionally distant. If he’s fighting his feelings for you, he probably won't reveal anything emotional in conversation. But Scorpios are men of action, so he won’t be able to stop himself from doing sweet or unexpected things for you. For example, he might drop off lunch from your favorite restaurant when you’re having a busy day, or send a text to make sure you got home if you had to drive in a storm.
- Why he does it: Scorpios shy away from talking about their feelings because it makes them feel vulnerable. Performing acts of service is a way for them to show you they care without having to actually say anything.
- How to respond: Say “thank you” sincerely and tell him how thoughtful he is.

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He makes excuses to talk to you.

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If a Scorpio has a crush on you, he’ll take every opportunity to chat. Granted, he’ll steer clear of romantic or emotional topics during your conversations. Generally, a Scorpio will probe your mind and stick to cerebral topics, but he'll still be very chatty around you. When a Scorpio is into you, he can’t help but try to get to know you better.
- Why he does it: It’s common for a Scorpio to want to learn everything about the person they’re crushing on. They can be intense at times (but their hearts are in the right place)!
- How to respond: Be approachable and open to whatever he wants to chat about. Stick with witty and intellectual conversations–steer clear of anything emotional (especially when you’re first getting to know him).
- Scorpios can also be major flirts, so don’t be surprised if you get that vibe from him while he’s chatting you up—but once he realizes he’s doing it, he’ll reign it in quickly. He might even end the conversation abruptly, since he’ll feel like he lost control of himself in front of you (which a Scorpio hates).
- Reader Poll: We asked 771 wikiHow readers if they think Scorpios are the most sexual zodiac sign, and 88% of them said yes. [Take Poll] So, flirting with a Scorpio can get pretty intense.

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He asks for your opinion.

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If he trusts you enough to ask for your opinion, he has feelings for you. Scorpios are fiercely independent for many reasons, but one major factor is because they simply don’t trust other people. In fact, they actively distrust pretty much everyone, and they certainly don’t need anyone’s input to make decisions. If a Scorpio cares about your opinion, that means he trusts your judgment—and this is huge for him.
- Seeking out your opinion is an even bigger deal because it makes him feel vulnerable (Scorpios really struggle with vulnerability).
- Why he does it: He trusts and respects you, and your opinion genuinely matters to him.
- How to respond: The Eduts recommend encouraging him to continue being vulnerable around you. This sign needs to feel comfortable opening up around their partner.^{[4]
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He’s all over your social media.

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A Scorpio tends to obsessively monitor their crush's profiles. Is your guy liking or commenting on all of your Instagram posts? This is a classic example of Scorpio’s well-known intensity. He may even DM or ask you about other guys who interact with you on social media. Eyedealism says Scorpios can be quite jealous; they tend to borderline stalk the object of their desire, and social media makes that easy to do.^{[5]
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- Why he does it: He’s intense and laser-focused on the object of his affection (you!)
- How to respond: He’ll probably do or say something that makes it clear he's been obsessively watching your posts and stories. Reassure him that you aren't interested in anyone else.
- Want to learn more about this elusive water sign? Check out our article Scorpio in Love and Relationships.

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He acts jealous.

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Scorpio sees everyone as competition, especially other guys. If you talk to another guy around him, he’ll immediately start acting differently (perhaps even aggressively) toward you or the other guy (or both of you). According to Eyedealism, this is pretty typical Scorpio behavior when they're crushing on someone.^{[6]
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Expert Interview} Since he’s trying to fight his feelings for you, he’ll probably try to cover up his jealous outburst or blow it off like it never happened.
- He may even disappear for a while so he can regain control of himself. The next time you see him, be flirty and do what you can to reassure him that you only have eyes for him.
- Why he does it: He’s naturally competitive and tends to assume the worst. You’re probably just being friendly, but he’ll feel threatened by other guys.
- How to respond: Avoid playing the jealousy card on purpose to get a rise out of Scorpio; he won't react well to this. Eyedealism recommends looking him straight in the eye and letting him know you’re a trustworthy and solid person.^{[7]
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His behavior is inconsistent.

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Blowing hot and cold is common when a Scorpio catches feelings. You were sure he was into you yesterday, but today he’s avoiding you. Sound familiar? Scorpio men can definitely be unpredictable and moody, which means they’re feeling vulnerable. The last thing he wants is to feel vulnerable (or seem vulnerable around you), so he’ll probably go radio silent until his mood improves.
- Why he does it: Extreme moodiness is common with this sign. In fact, it’s one of the big reasons why Scorpios get a lot of judgement from others.
- How to respond: If you're crushing on him, do your best to roll with his mood swings. Before he reveals his feelings to you, he wants to see that you can handle his broody nature.
- No zodiac sign is perfect… and that includes Scorpio! If you’re curious to learn more, check out our article on Scorpio’s most common weaknesses.

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He asks you lots of questions.

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Cautious Scorpio will ask you probing questions to feel you out. Don’t be surprised if your Scorpio asks you deep or personal questions! He wants to know what makes you tick so he can figure out if you’re actually compatible. In fact, he'll continue hiding and fighting his feelings for you until he’s satisfied that you’re a good match for him. Eyedealism suggests answering his questions honestly and speaking from your heart so he sees who you really are.^{[8]
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- Why he does it: He’s basically doing research to determine if the two of you are compatible.
- How to respond: If you try to turn the tables and ask him personal questions, he may change the subject or find some other way to evade them for now. The Eduts suggest showing up consistently for him to prove that you have integrity and can be trusted. Once he feels safe and comfortable, he may open up more.^{[9]
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He clams up if you mention feelings.

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If he isn’t ready to talk about romance, he’ll go stubbornly silent. A Scorpio has no problem stonewalling a person if they venture into territory he’s not comfortable with. If he’s actively trying to fight his feelings for you, or if he isn’t quite ready to tip his hand, he’ll cut you off or find a reason to end the conversation. He won’t even be smooth about it, either; he’ll essentially shut down right before your eyes. This can be pretty hurtful, especially if you're trying to reveal your feelings.
- When a Scorpio gets like this, it’s best not to push him. Take his behavior as a sign that he’s simply not ready yet. He’ll get there eventually—just try to be patient with him.
- Why he does it: Eyedealism says Scorpio is a very tense sign, especially when it comes to emotions.^{[10]
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- How to respond: Do what you can to make him feel relaxed and safe around you to help him open up, Eyedealism recommends.^{[12]
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He reveals details about himself.

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Secretive Scorpio won’t reveal anything unless he trusts you. If your guy shares a secret with you or tells you about his goals, dreams, or feelings, this is a major sign that he has feelings for you and trusts you. Eyedealism explains that Scorpios simply won’t do this with anyone unless they feel safe enough to be vulnerable.^{[13]
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- Why he does it: He thinks you’re a safe person and feels comfortable enough to open up (this is major for a Scorpio).
- How to respond: Be interested in what he has to say! Support and validate him so he’ll continue being open with you.
- If he’s still reluctant to reveal personal details, just stay the course. Once a Scorpio starts opening up, they tend to open up completely, which makes for a deep and satisfying relationship. He's worth the wait!

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Is dating a Scorpio hard?

WikiGladeCatcher583

I went on a date with someone recently and they told me they were a Scorpio and idk if that's a red flag or not. I've heard that Scorpios are obsessive and difficult to be in a relationship with, is that facts or nah? I kinda wanna go on a second date but idk if I should so pls help